Alright. So a little background on us. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2+ years. We live together and usually things are great. I have some issue with his ex. She can't seem to stay out of his life. We've had several fights over this before. I've found texts/phone calls between the two and although I know they haven't met up together behind my back, I'm afraid that he might still have feelings for her. I have expressed how much it really bothers me that he is still in contact with her and told him he needs to stop.
SO. A day or two ago, he went home for the holidays (we live about 6 hours away from the town we grew up in). I drove in last night. I had plans to stay with my parents, but last minute they weren't home, so I decided to make my way over to his house for the night. His parents were also out of town, so he had the house to himself. I pull up and let myself in. He had a few friends over drinking some beer and BBQ-ing, no big deal, BUT his ex girlfriend is also there. I couldn't believe it. I told him we're over and I don't want to talk to him anymore. I haven't talked to him since.
I'm most pissed at the fact that I've TOLD him how much it hurts that he's still in contact with her. Talking to her is one thing, but meeting up with her without me knowing? They weren't doing anything, but come on, inviting her over to drink when he has the house to himself? Am I overreacting?