Heres the basics guys and gals
been seeing this girl I work with well speaking via txt and work for about 2 months now and all that and we are deffinetly into each other we have been taking it slow which has been nice and she said we need to spend alot more time with each other, we also work together. we have been organising to go camping (her suggestion) next month and going out for drinks for leaving doos and birthdays and after work.
Last week we went out for some food and a few drinks and held hands and at the end of the night we kissed only on the lips, a nice kiss
but after that it felt like she went abit cold, she said jokingly never kissed a man with a beard before so I asked her what it was like and she said "stop asking little kids ask"....i wasnt being needy just breaking the ice. I have left it now not sure what to do next to be honest, if shes gone off me than thats cool or if she needs some space to think than great i just feel like i have killed it.
She text me last night saying sorry for being distant just have alot of things on my mind at the minute, we carried on texting for about an hour and then it stopped and I went to bed. her ex bpyfriend is one of her best mates and she stayed round his on an air bed on monday with some other friends, i am not jealous just dont want to be mucked around if shes getting back with him....they have been together 6 years on and off, but called it off in march this year....
Not text her tonight, went out to clear my head by going fishing, but was thinking should I give her a nice text saying that, when shes sorted it you know where i am.......friend in work says give her an ultimatum but i am not that kind of guy
First time this thing has happend to me.......very confused