This guy asked me out a few weeks ago. We had a nice date, it was very easy and relaxed. It was voiced on both halves that we were interested in eachother and had a very nice time. I felt like it was one of the best first dates (if not THE) I'd had. Really connect... we have a lot in common and it was so simple.
Said guy is now noticeably nervous. He voiced a want to take it slow, be friends, get to know eachother. That's all fine and good, I know he hasn't dated a whole lot (and the guys I have dated have been utter losers, not worth a sentance here.) so I am excited to have a guy in my life who is so very sweet, and I feel like I've known him forever... not just a few weeks.
I guess my problem is that I want him to feel comfortable around me. I know we are both goofy post-teen kids at heart, are both innocent and newbies in the dating world. I want to be able to say, "Dude, just be yourself. Nothing has changed... no pressure, lets just have fun and get to know eachother!" But it has become a nervous block in just talking. He was border-line avoiding me, and I'm not sure if he would have come over had I not taken charge and said, "Come sit with me." Once we were sitting and chatting it was super easy again.
Please reassure me, or give me advice... I'm knew to this and may have just needed to write it somewhere.