Ok this may be a messy one.
Ok I have a child who is three with a girl from a one night stand, she looked me up bout two years ago.
We have been in great terms and get on great. Anyways I asked her out two times since last year and she said she preferred us to not get together. Anyways last month on er birthday she decided to take me home and we started seeing each other.
After few weeks she was having doubts and said she doesn't feel how I do, so we had a talk and said we would cool things down go slow and all that.
Then at the weekend she was asking why don't I tell her how I feel and am not very affectionate....
So I told her how I felt that I was in love with her, she said she still doesn't know how she feels.
Then two days later she said she doesn't feel the same and really cares for me as a friend, so had another talk where she made it clear she won't ever feel that way for me as she doesn't feel a spark. But she said she really likes hanging out with me and wants us to be friends and hang out from time to time.
No ill have to see her few times a week anyways. And I don't think my feelings will ever change for her.
If I'm friends with her and an up around her all the time is it a bad idea? Is she gettin best of both worlds, as in we would be like a family in terms of our child and then hanging out when the baby goes to sleep and there is no commitment or romantic feelings from her?
Should I just leave things and be friendly when I have to see her?