Look me and this girl have talked for about a year flirty and finally hung out multiple times back in the summer. Enough so and far enough to where it was obvious there is somethin. We've been thru pretty much. But She has a bf, a long time one that she's not happy with any more.. question me if you want, that's not the point. The point is, is since school started back up we've only seen each other twice and not in a month. But we still would text frequently. Wll monday she was pissed at her bf again b/c he didn answer her calls and went to visit one of his female friends and she says 'I'm just so over that relationship, I don't even care anymore." And so I said what are you gonna about it and she said 'same thing I have been, nothing.' So I basically finally just went off and told her that staying in a relationship is like is living a lie. And a lot of other stuff. Didn hold back. Well she didn text back and I didn really care cuz I told her the truth. Well she text me the next day and said she just wanted to let me know she wasn mad at me for what I said but its her decision. Well that mad me even more mad. B/c I'm not the kinda guy that cares if you're mad if I tell you the truth. So I didn text back. And she has tried to text me all week since and I aint text back cuz in my mind what's the point. So she got drunk last night and text me and text me and said 'basically you hate me becuz I have faith and can't let go' and I just sent back 'I don't hate you' and she says what do you then and I said frustrated and confused, and if you wanna talk about it more call me. She said 'I'm too drunk too and he is here." Which is half the problem. I'm not tryin ta hide anymore. she has flat out lied to him when he asked about me. And b4 you say maybe she was lieinabout me, I asked her 'you're lyin to me or you're lyin to him" and she says you know I'm not lying to you. And that's true. So then today she text me and says so should we talk about it or just let it go. Like everything is fine! And I'm just so frustrated b/c she don't get it. I don't even feel like talkin ta her anymore cuz I'm fed up. I'm not gonna do what we been doin anymore b/c its hardly a relationship when you don't see each other. She just wants to have everything and were not gonna do that anymore. So what do I say without soundin like a dick that says that.
And before you say it, I know someone will say its half my fault for gettin in this situation to begin with. I don't wholeheartedly disagree...