Dear forum.
I've been together with my ex-girlfriend for almost 2 years. I live in Denmark her in Ankara in Turkey. On Monday I am moving to Ankara, and will start to study there next year.
I quit my job and apartment in Denmark, but now 4 days before my arrival my girlfriend sent me a message on FB that she is breaking up with me she will not see me when I arrive.
Just days before, and the months leading up to my move, she told me she is waiting me impatiently.
I have not done anything or written or said anything to her except that I can't wait to see her. Her abrupt break up is like a chock. She says it is because she does not wish for me to abandon Denmark for Turkey. But I said it is my own dicission, and that she is not guilty in anything, I am making my own choice.
What do the forum think of a break up like this, 4 days before me becoming a stranger on a new continent? I already planned and will move to Ankara as planned.
She has really made me happy with her telling me of all the amazing places we should go an have fun, how she waited for me impatiently, and how happy she was to host me before I found an apartment.
Can anybody suggest what can have happened, and why someone would change their mind suddenly like this? I have not written or said anything negative to her, only positive, but then suddenly she breaks up, and then like this. I feel very sad, also because I now how to go trough a hurtful time with a bleeding heart in a city where I know no one except my ex-girlfriend who refuses to see me. I guess I will become very loonely and sad.
Any suggestions?