newbie after advice

[Rabbit82]

hi ppl im new here and thought id join as it looks like a friendly place.
Im after the answer to the question that has probably been asked so many times, but i want to know, how do you know when you're in love?

i mena is it like when you are away from that person you want to be with them and cant get them out of your mind etc? but surely this happens in every relationship at the beggining 'honeymoon' period?

ive heard so many things and hav been told that if you have to think about it, you're not in love. its so confusing helppp!!!!

[Zach]

When you first fall in love you feel amazing and excited and happy and euphoric.
After this fades completely you move into different phases of love, each deepening as time progresses. You may think you have fallen out of love or are bored. But when this happens make sure you take a second look at your heart...

Its a hard thing to explain. Sorry if this makes little sense.

[Rabbit82]

no this sounds good, carry on. How do you mean it gets different? if you feel like you're out of love then how do y ou realise you're not?

[vashti]

Genuine love is what is left over after infatuation wears off. If you are lucky.

[Mathias]

Genuine love is what is left over after infatuation wears off.

Listen to vashti. She knows stuff.

[Rabbit82]

Genuine love is what is left over after infatuation wears off. If you are lucky.

ok what if there never was infactuation? what iff you started of seeing eachother ie sleeping together then you just saw eachother so much that you became comfortable with eachother, is that love?

If so i think you can fall in love with anyone

[Mathias]

ok what if there never was infactuation? what iff you started of seeing eachother ie sleeping together then you just saw eachother so much that you became comfortable with eachother, is that love?

Hahahaha.

That explains the other thread.

That's not even CLOSE to love.