Originally Posted by
Primo
Most definitely it's just a f*** for him, the cuddling etc is just a part of his personality - after sex routine. I would make other plans for your life, because if you cut the p***y off he won't have anything to do with you.
For what it's worth, guys that are good in bed can have phenomenal sex with anyone, so from a male's point of view you're just something different. Different smell, touch, taste and personality to connect with, nothing more. If there was anything at all other than that you would know in spades by now.
Sorry if that seems a little harsh and maybe not what you want to hear, but I've been there when I was younger and no matter how intimate we were when we together, she was just a different piece of a** that I knew was good and did what I liked, but I still had mind blowing sex with my s/o's too.