Greetings representatives of the beautiful gender,
I`m a 21yo male student, i`ve had my share of adventures with the term called love, but the thing is, after so many tries at it, it`s really becoming quite demotivating to even try building relationships, especially when most of them end with the girl leaving because i`m just too awkward sometimes. That she needs someone who is not a puppet, but a man. That`s quite sad really.
The thing is, i`ve been like this ever since i can remember myself:
I`m shy to do most things, but when i set my mind to do something, i do not care what others will think of my actions, but such a scene is pretty rare.
I`m not the light of the party, i`m rarely talktive, but i have my moments.
I`m not open and don`t put much trust into just anyone who comes up to me for a chat. It takes a while for me to get used to other people.
These three points lead me to this question
"Do girls/women like the shy and quiet, or how otherwise to put it - awkward kind of guys? Or would it be better if guys like me just didn`t exist? How do you cope with this, if you ever have?"
Looking forward to your replies!