Hello can any1 help me... :'(

[arkchong]

I meet her about last year december when working.....

i give her flower during the valentine day...on tat day the result is positive....and we use sms~ing at tat time.... the result is veryvery positive....
after a week, i went b home town again and talk my feeling to her....but she say i have a step didnt do. then she also say give me answer when i b nx time.(about 2 month time....now just pass a month...because i after final exam only go back hometown.)
during tis period, we using sms to contact (call only 3 times), but till 2 week ago, she start less contact with me and getting cold n cold.... .

2day ago, at nite time she send me a sms : "what have u realise during this period...have u found out anything between us."

yesterday nite, she send to me "I dun wan u misunderstand... and dun wanna to hurt any1....but i cant feel anything from u...just like normal fren...just friend...." after that she say we talk clearly when i b hometown..."

y suddenly go negative result....

can any1 give me advise and i still got chance?

plz help ...thx and sry my bad english

[Rosebud]

I'm sorry i didn't understand anything you just said!

[xwfuro]

maybe you didnt show her enough attention or something? some girls will give up like that or change their mind fast if you dont wait hand and foot on them at the start.. not really sure but that seems like a strong possibility

[arkchong]

then what should i do now...still got chance?

[xwfuro]

of course you still have a chance man., first of stop text messaging thats a bad habit, call her up and ask her whats the deal tell her how you honestly feel towards u and her as a couple. be straight up worst that casn happen is she still says no but at least you can say you did everything possible.

[arkchong]

ok i will try tat...thx

[Tone]

then what should i do now...still got chance?

Um.

She said she doesn't feel anything for you... sucks but you can't win them all.

There's no way you can just 'make' her have feelings for you suddenly... she's not interested in you like that and she let you know.

[TAVS]

Does This Look Like A Text Message To You?!

[moeno]

ok some girls are bad at giving the NO im not interested straightaway. and guys will almost always inteprete the girls' nice gesture as interest

so just out of courtesy (especially if you're a nice guy but too bad she aint interested)

she will still remain nice to you and especially if shes not taken she might want to give you a chance. but after evaluation, she just cant make herself like you - the chemistry isnt there, so she will eventually turn you down.