Well ive kind of reached breaking point with my boyfriend and i dont know what to do. We have been together officially for around 3 months but we have been dating and "seeing each other" for over 2 years. In the last few months he has been staying at my place constantly, like every single night. He has his own place which he shares with a family member, but he rarely goes there at all now and virtually all his stuff is at mine. So i sat him down and asked him if he considered himself "living with me", he said no, that he liked having his own place and that he didnt want us to live together just yet. I am/was absolutly fine with that as i also enjoy my own space at times. But a few weeks have passed since that conversation and he has only been to his place ONCE in that time (he didnt even sleep there), and when he returned to mine he brought another load of clothes and belongings round to my place. Again i spoke to him and said if you dont live here why are you bringing all this stuff round, to which he replied that he liked being with me and having his home comforts around him. I dont know if im just overeacting but im starting to beleive he is just taking advantage of the situation, as he doesnt really pay any rent or bills at his place because his family member seems happy to cover everything, he knows that i pay alot for the rent at mine and i feel if he is sleeping there every night he should contribute to the rent, taxes and bills, but because he insists "he doesnt live at mine" how can i insist that he pays the price of living there? Im at my wits end now, what am i supposed to do? I want him there, i enjoy him being there, but i dont feel comfortable that im going out to work, and basically paying for all the luxuries that he is also enjoying. Any of your thoughts, ideas or advice would be gratefully received. many thanks!