I'm new to the forums and felt like I needed to share my story.
I met this girl online, in a game, about 2 years go. The game is a big part of my life. It's been my main hobby for the past 5 years. When we started talking, I had no idea where this would lead. She lives in Maine while I live in Montreal, Quebec, on the other side of the border. No matter the obstacle, we started dating, seeing each other almost every 2 weeks. Countless hours of chat/ventrilo, social gaming and time spent together did not change anything in the end.
To me, we had a great relationship going on. I loved her, more than anything in the world and I thought she did too. The last weekend we saw each other, I started seeing something was wrong. When I asked her, on a Sunday night when we were in bed, if she was happy with me, I got no answer. I was already going through hard times, but that moment is scarred into my soul. I looked around, and there she was, crying. I could not believe it. The one thing I was sure of in my entire life was now more than uncertain. I never saw it coming.
She did not dump me on the spot but no matter how much I tried to engage into a conversation about it with her the next day, she wouldn't say anything. She usually leaves on Tuesday morning while I'm at work, so Monday night was my one chance to try to fix things. Yet she wouldn't talk. A few days later, when she got back in the U.S., she told me it was over. I was crushed.
I looked for support and advice with a good friend of ours that also play the same game as us. We were all pretty close and I felt like he would understand better than any of my real life friends. I told him everything I felt, everything that happened and he helped me out. To my surprise though, a few days after, he tells me that my ex and him are now together and are planning on seeing each other and that all in the same week. I felt lost, betrayed. I felt like I lost everything.
So here I am, 2 weeks later, trying to work my way back with her. I still love her, no matter what happened. I can't give up on us, yet I know it's a lost cause. I let her know everything I feel, how much she means to me and ask for the second chance I never had. But she is cold as ice. She says she's thinking about it but I know it's over.
I know I should try to keep my distances but it is a constant struggle. I can't cope with being away from her. Getting replaced is the worst feeling I've ever felt. The last 2 years made me the happiest man in the world. I thought it would last forever. But in the end, I realize that for her, it didn't mean nearly as much as it did to me.
Every time I think I should give up on her and move on, I fall right back where I was. Calling her, sending her texts and emails, trying to make her understand she's doing a mistake but in the end it only makes me even more sad and disappointed by her. I don't know what to do or how to feel. I can't play that game anymore knowing everyone knows what's going on with me and them. I lost my one true love and my best confidant. I'm alone, crushed, depressed and heartbroken.