Originally Posted by
moeburn
I'm a guy who has accidentally gotten a crush on my best female friend. Maybe its because she confidently flirts with me from time to time, and i've grown on that, or maybe its because I'm a teenager, who knows. The problem is, I once rejected her three years ago, before we were even friends, so there isn't a chance of her telling me even if she did feel the same way about me, unless i do first.
So here's my question. Do I tell her, and work through the situation with her, or do I swallow my feelings and chalk it up for experience? I know that as intimacy grows, friendship lessens, its a natural problem I have. I don't want to destroy the friendship, (whether she rejects me or agrees with me, I'm pretty sure it would have a significant impact on the friendship), but I don't want to miss out on a great oppurtunity.
What do I do?