I've had a problem in the past with my ex letting go.
Normal pattern is I end it for one reason or another (this has only happened twice, once because she got so drunk she started screaming abuse at me on a city street, the other after she pushed me away and said she didn't know if she wanted to be with me or not) both times she has kept making contact, normally phones and says she didn't mean it and wants us to stay together.
Both times I relented and took her back, this time I'm not going to.
So I ended it on Sunday night, partly because she had an on-line dating site profile
So on Monday she sends me a text to say she can't access her account to take it down (I guess she figures I'll take her back if she does)
and yesterday she sent me a text to say she still hadn't heard back from the website so couldn't take it down (I told her not to worry and just put up a new one )
So today I've heard nothing, so was thinking, maybe she is actually going to let me go and will just back off and leave me alone
And just as I'm thinking that I get a text from her saying you called?
I said no, must be someone else
She said no, it was from you
So I said, it can't be because I didn't call you and I've deleted your number to stop me from texting you
She then comes back and says oh you're right it was from another day.
So .... a mistake or was she intentionally trying to make contact and use that as an excuse.
I'm figuring the latter as the last time I called her and she didn't pick up was on Sunday morning, and she returned that call later that day.
Just seems odd that it's now Wednesday and she's only just checked her phone as she's on it all the time.
And regardless, seeing as I dumped her, why would she even respond to a missed call from me? unless she wanted to hear from me? please tell me it's not so