Which do you generally follow more when you are in a head vs heart situation?
Which do you generally follow more when you are in a head vs heart situation?
Some people are drains and some are radiators... Keep clear of the drains and hug the radiators!
Heart ... and it always leads to trouble
Head and it always seems to lead to pain
I can't seem to win either way to be honest
Couldn't agree more. I act on my emotions (like most women!) problem is those emotions are consantly changing. So I decide to use my head and then don't feel quite satisfied with the result that gives either.
Some people are drains and some are radiators... Keep clear of the drains and hug the radiators!
I guess both would be better. It's hard though...
Problem I have is if I think with my heart it ****s my head up and if I think with my head it ****s my heart up
Next time I'm going to think with my arse and hopefully my head and heart will be well out of it
I always try to keep a balance seems easier to put things in to view.
Getting over a broken heart is like being on shrooms. -MaidenMinx
LOL Horseyguy. I might try that too.
Some people are drains and some are radiators... Keep clear of the drains and hug the radiators!
IMO: In the end, when the dust has settled using the head ... that is whats best.
Often, using either is painful, but it's much easier to recover from if you've logiced it out rather than followed blindly with the heart. At least that's the way it seems from reading the painful (often codependent) experiences of others on these boards.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion
Heart gives you a general direction the head gives you the tools to get there safetly
Getting over a broken heart is like being on shrooms. -MaidenMinx
If heart and head are in conflict...
Oh hell, I can't really say, as it depends on the situation. When heart and head are in harmony, you're gold.
listen to your GUT.. never ever ever fails me