Is there something wrong with me??

[whatisgoingon]

So a while back I started this fling with an older woman...shes in her mid 40s i am in my mid 20s...long story short..she started saying things that led me to think we could be more than just a fling but when i started to take it a lil more serious she would shut it right down...and just recently she wanted to end things all together...we havent done anything since a few months ago..just been talking and being complicated friends...and I have accomplished everything with her...sex,videotape,pictures etc...everything but somehow i just cant seems to let her go...is there something wrong with me??????? Its a very long story so if you need to know something before answering feel free to ask...

[TheTooya]

Long story turned short, she wanted just a **** buddy, you took it the wrong way and wanted more, she broke things off probably because of this... :/

[whatisgoingon]

i understand if thats all she wants but when i was away in Feb and she was away in March..she would send me txts like "I miss you so much baby..I love you..blah blah blah...i dont know..

[vashti]

She may actually have genuine affection for you, but she is old enough to recognize how inappropriate her feelings are, which is probably why she is pulling back. I mean, it's not like she can bring you around to family holiday dinners, right? Everyone (probably including her) would think she had lost her mind.

It's best to think of this as a sexual relationship with someone you enjoy, and nothing more. If you (or she) can't keep it at that, you should stop seeing her.

[roy_delene]

I think you fell in love with a woman who was just in it for the sex. I don;t think there's anything wrong with you maybe you should look for some one who wants a serious relationship