What does it mean when an ex says 'You are the nicest person'?
This was the last thing he told me and we have not spoken since (a month). We broke up over his previous ex who he dated for two years. She dumped him. We got together 7 months after that and had been together for just over a year. She randomlygot back in touch with him and he was 'lost' because his ex tunring up 'threw him'. Though it was a messy break up, we didn't end on bad terms. I let him go because I figured he'd need to be alone to figure out who he wants and not stay with me because he felt he had to. She was his first love so I didn't think I could compete. I mean his reaction to her when she first contacted him out of the blue told me everything. I am heartbroken because I never wanted to lose him. After the split, we still met up for a few weeks before I told him this but now haven't spoken for a month. he told me he loved me and cares for me and agreed with what I had said because 'he doesn't want to hurt me but can see himself doing so' and that 'i deserve better'. when the ex first cameback into the picture, he told me she treated him like dirt. her family are richer than his an that they all looked down on him. his friends didn't like her. etc etc.
I feel stupid because I spent so long with him. 'nice' is always classed as a boring word. am i reading too much into it?
. I'm not the sort to shout and scream about something which is probably why we ended like we did because neither is he, so we just talked about it. I wouldn't go back because he has hurt me too much but all the final words are making me think about what he actually meant. I think I'm just in over-analyse mode. I'm not looking for hope or anything, just piece of mind, so I can move on. thank you