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    Friend with benifits

    a friend and I have been talking about having sex with each other. And I wanted to know if I should go ahead and give her anal...she has never done before, and a friend of hers said that it was bad from their bad experience...but I want to prove to her that it can't be all that bad...so I want to know how I should do anal sex in the best way...like what kind of techniques and all that.

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    LOTS of lubrication. Wear a condom. Rub her clit a lot while you're at it. See if you can manage to play with her tits and rub her back as well.

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    Lots of lube and slooooooooooooow.

    I suspect you're gonna have the urge to jam it in there.

    Yeah, don't do that.

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    I know already to use lube and have a condom...also not to go too fast...But I probably will need to be reminded a few times before we do have sex.

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    You don't say whether or not she WANTS anal sex. Lots of women are violently opposed.

    Anyway, I think sex with your friends will ruin your friendship. Why don't you just go have casual sex with someone you don't care about instead?
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    You don't say whether or not she WANTS anal sex. Lots of women are violently opposed.
    Who ****ing cares? It's not like she'd have a choice if I was the one doing her.


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    I just want her to know that it isn't that bad...besides...the other girl showed me the lube her boyfriend at the time used...and it was like the size of a quarter.

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    If you want her to know it isn't that bad, then why don't you buy a dildo and let her do you first?
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    hahahagahck*chokesonownspit*cahhahah.. ok, even though that is really funny, it is also a logically sound point. admit it bigcr27, that can't be your only reason.

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    Why don't you use the front hole ("Vagina") like it was ment.

    I know it sounds weird but if you think about it... natural lube, (should be) a lot less uncomfortable, no shit on your wang.

    Vagina > Asshole

    It is what they're made for, ya know?

    ~Blix

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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    If you want her to know it isn't that bad, then why don't you buy a dildo and let her do you first?
    Or give HER a dildo and let her try it on her OWN.

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    I suspect nothing good will come of this. Someone usually ends up developing feelings for the other. However, let's suppose that this doesn't happen and she finds someone else or decides to cut off sex with you. Then you will probably grow resentment towards her. Proceed at your own risk.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NeoSeminole View Post
    I suspect nothing good will come of this. Someone usually ends up developing feelings for the other. However, let's suppose that this doesn't happen and she finds someone else or decides to cut off sex with you. Then you will probably grow resentment towards her. Proceed at your own risk.
    Let's get the government involved!

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    hrmm... the best part, you can cumm all you want in her... doesn't that make you happy?? all the perks without the pregnacy effect.

    alright... on the real, everyone is telling you to use a rubber. that is for your protection. me, i'm stubborn and i never use one,... again which is why i'm stupid.

    as far as the feeling portion, do you see yourself with this girl in the future?? and why does she want to have sex with you.. there has to be a valid reason behind it, not just because you are friends. think about that one.

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    friends with benifits is just a nicer way of saying **** buddies.

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