Selfish or no??

[random1]

So, I'm not sure if this was selfish of him or not.

Basically, what happened was that I swallowed (this was the first time that I swallowed) most of what he ejaculated. However, afterwards he didn't want to french kiss me and we do french kiss quite a bit.

Did I just think too much or...

[Gribble]

I don't think so. If it makes him uncomfortable why force it?

Now, if he refused to go down on you in return that would be selfish.

[1averagejoe]

Is it because his cum is in your mouth and he doesn't want to kiss because of that? Or is it because he has no interest in kissing you once he's finished? A lot of guys once they've cum, tend to get really sleepy and just want to relax. I know I'm that way, so that's a reasonable reason imho. But I would still put in some effort even if I was tired, even for a little bit.

If it's because his cum is in your mouth, I think he should at least be willing to kiss you. I mean it's his cum. If you're willing to swallow it the least he can do is kiss you. But the first place you should be going looking for an answer is him. If he ain't willing to get his own cum in his mouth, why should you?

[Gribble]

If he ain't willing to get his own cum in his mouth, why should you?

I'm not. I'd sooner go without oral than kiss a girl after she's done it.

But she'd also go without oral. I think it's a fair enough trade that she go down on me and then I go down on her. That, in my mind, is fair.

[anachronistic]

Yeah it's a little selfish. But you can't blame him. Some guys are completely disgusted by the thought of tasting jizz. I'm sure he'll make it up to you somehow... if he doesn't, then don't swallow his jizz. Gee.

[1averagejoe]

I'm not. I'd sooner go without oral than kiss a girl after she's done it.

But she'd also go without oral. I think it's a fair enough trade that she go down on me and then I go down on her. That, in my mind, is fair.

But she's got jizzed in her mouth...it's more than just oral. When you go down on a girl, it's just a little wet. It's not like you're getting a mouthful of jizz.

But I can see how you find it not so pleasant. It really depends on the person. I still say she talks to him if it happens again. If he doesn't want to kiss her, then stop letting him jizz in your mouth. I personally see nothing wrong with it though. But everyone's different I guess.

[Asparagoose]

The title of this thread was completely misleading. Set myself up for disappointment. I was waiting to hear tales of mucho drama. I want the last minute of my life back!

[shh!]

If he ain't willing to get his own cum in his mouth, why should you?

I agree. Next time, don't swallow.

[Cain]

I looked at it this way:

If my girl was willing to kiss me after I went down on her, I should be willing to kiss her after she goes down on me.

And that's what we did.

[NeoSeminole]

OP, to answer your question: it wasn't selfish of him to not kiss you after he came in your mouth. Nobody wants to taste bodily fluids from the same sex (unless you're gay). I'm sure you would be disgusted at the thought of eating another girl out. So relax if he doesn't want to taste cum.

[Gribble]

If after going down on a girl she feels uncomfortable about kissing me I'm willing to *gasp* respect her insecurities.

[NeoSeminole]

1averagejoe says:

"If it's because his cum is in your mouth, I think he should at least be willing to kiss you. I mean it's his cum. If you're willing to swallow it the least he can do is kiss you."

shh! says:

"I agree. Next time, don't swallow."

bad advice. You're basically saying if people aren't willing to reciprocate by indulging in homosexual tendencies, then they should be denied by their sexual partners.

[Cain]

bad advice. You're basically saying if people aren't willing to reciprocate by indulging in homosexual tendencies, then they should be denied by their sexual partners.

Anyone that isn't willing to kiss a girl after she swallows because it's homosexual is just completely insecure with their sexuality.

It's your fluid. But it's still cum, right?

Well, do you touch your own dick? Because.. you know.. only women and fags touch dicks.

[NeoSeminole]

Cain, please explain how someone who doesn't want to taste cum is insecure with their sexuality. I'd like to hear your rationale. As for the last part of your post, there's a big difference between touching your penis and ingesting your own cum. I'm sure you would agree.

[IndiReloaded]

I don't understand what the big deal is with not swallowing.

We don't eat or drink any of our other bodily fluids. Guys, are you willing to drink a mouthful of your gals urine? Its perfectly sterile, I assure you.

Bleh. Just spit gals, its fine. It won't affect their orgasm. If it does, its all BS porno-psych fantasy on their part.