I am the original poster of 'He loves but but doesnt want to be with me...'. He broke up with me just over a week ago. On Monday I decided to speak to him on Fbook...which went well. Really general conversation. I fell ill yesterday (passed out) and somehow my ex found out. He messaged me to see how i was etc and said he was sorry to hear what had happened. After a few messages back and forward I logged on to Facebook and he was online. We got talking, again quite general. I was quite blunt in asking if maybe we could catch up sometime..considering when he ended it he said to keep in touch. He said..and to my surprise said 'im free tomorrow'. So we met up for lunch today, had a few drinks and it was great. He then invited me back to his house. We were sittin on the couch talking...then he kissed me. It was like it was the first time he kissed me 4 years ago...so therefore my hopes were high. Things progressed...and the deed was done..which was incredible. Afterwards....we fell asleep together. Then woke up, he had a shower and invited me in which was kool. Then i got a bit teary because i was overwhelmed....we got talking...i asked him what that meant and he said he wasnt sure. he said he has feelings for me but not in a relationship way. He told me he ended because of all the fights we were having...my theory is that he saw it an easy way out. I then suggested that we spend time together..and maybe try and work out the differences...he said 'I dont no how long it will take me to be able to catch up with u as a friend'...i said 'we just had lunch as friends?' and he was like 'oh yeh fair enough'
I dont no what to think...Im confused because he seemed so eager to kiss me and everything? I want him back so much!!