ok, I posted a few weeks ago

[flygirl]

about my b/f looking at porn, and yeah I know its normal, but the porn or myspace he is visiting is Cross dressers. Is this normal? is he bi? gay? what? Im confused.

[Scribs Girl]

Id say youre in a bit of a pickle

[Pectabyte]

about my b/f looking at porn, and yeah I know its normal, but the porn or myspace he is visiting is Cross dressers. Is this normal? is he bi? gay? what? Im confused.

Have you asked him if he is Bi or gay? Just because he likes that kind of stuff doesn't necessarily mean hes Bi or Gay it could just mean he is a wierdo.

Do you guys have anything wrong in the bedroom?

[flygirl]

I have asked him, and he says he isnt. I mean we have been together 2 yrs, an for him to have even told me after the first 6 months that he likes to look at crossdressers he trusts me a great deal. And things are fine in the bedroom, we share the same kind of kinky sex life. I want to understand this and feel okay with it. But I also dont want to hang around if I dont have the right equipment if you know what I mean

[Sonrisa]

ha ha ha rofl

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

Maybe he's interested in trying cross dressing?

[flygirl]

which I dont mind if he crossdresses, in private, kinda kinky, but I only want to be able to accept this with no problems, because I do love him so much, but I just want to know if a guy wants to do this, does it mean he is gay?

[Sonrisa]

yep, for sure.

[The Wise]

Are you sure he's looking at men dressed like women?

Or he's looking at women dressed like men?

In the first case yes he sounds at least bi-curious (doesn't mean he'd actually do it, but at least he gets some sort of excitement), but in the second case there is nothing to worry.

[vashti]

which I dont mind if he crossdresses, in private,

Really? Are you sure? Because I would mind. It would be a TOTAL turnoff for me.

You had better be 100% sure about this before you tell him.

[flygirl]

Yes, very sure its men dressed as women. He has told me, and I have seen the pics, the webpages he goes to, like caugh_crossdressed, boys will be girls, etc. But he says he isnt gay so I can deal with it I guess. I have done research online, and seen what many, many straight men have said about their desires to crossdress and the support they get from their so's. And I really dont mind, but I do and will mind if he starts secretly chatting with these others online.

[Gigabitch]

That's....gay-ish. Are you really okay with being with Bi-Curious George? I've known some girls who were devastated when they caught their man in bed with another man. This isn't necessarily what's going to happen to you, but you need to be aware of the possibility. I would hate to see him waste a whole lot of your time only to decide he really was hungry for sausage after all.

[IndiReloaded]

How often does he do this? Some people will look at stuff on the web b/c they are simply interested to see what others find interesting. Or bored. Or looking for a laugh, there is some weird stuff out there.

In other words: is he actually getting off on this stuff? If so, I hope you have liberal sexual tastes. If in doubt, ask to look at this stuff with him and gauge his response.