My girlfriend first kissed me when she was 14. She turns 19 next month. Her mom has always disapproved of the idea of her having a boyfriend. She's always been somewhat distant, ignoring me, and telling my girlfriend that I just wanted her for sex, and things like that.
I was annoyed, but okay until about 10 days ago, when my girlfriend told her mom that we've been having sex, and her mom freaked out and started leaving threatening messages on my phone telling me that her husband would beat me up, and calling her daughter bad names, and telling her that she would kick her out if she didn't cut off all contact with me.
So, uh, we tried to negotiate with her parents, and I've tried calling them on the phone to talk to them, to try and make things better, but her mom just told me that she hates the way I talk, and that I eat weird, and that I looked stoned all the time, and that interacting with me is like getting kicked in the stomach by a donkey, and that she hates me and that I make her sick and that there's nothing I can do to make things better.
I told my girlfriend she could move in with me, and then she started hating me, because she said that I would leave if I loved her, and she said I was selfish and a jerk, and she said I was ruining her life, and that everything is my fault, and that things are hopeless. She kind of went back and forth after being extremely stressed about staying with me and having her parents hate me, or just leaving me, and yesterday, she blocked me on Facebook, and sent me a text saying that it was the last I'd ever hear from her. We were kissing and stuff just 20 minutes before that happened. She says she loves me, and that she wants me, but that she needs the approval of her parents.
How can I fix my relationship?
I'm not stoned all the time. I don't even drink caffeine. And I have fought ferociously against the drug usage of her daughter. And she pressures me into sex! She doesn't use drugs anymore.
I have told her best friends who haven known her parents for longer and who are liked by them to personally talk to them and vouch for me, and they said they would. I've suggested having a secret relationship. I even made this picture collage thing:
i.imgur.com/QQw1r.jpg