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    wondering

    Ok, so i'm a guy, and as much as i hate to admit it, I'm vain. Looks do matter to me. So here's my problem. I'm talking to this girl, who i really like, she's friendly, smart, and fun to be around. thing is, her face isn't pretty to me. it's kinda ugly actually. I agreed to go out with her anyways. I just feel really weird about it. happy and not happy at the same time. I don't see myself with her in public. Should i keep going, or give up? Btw, if it matters she would be my first girlfriend. what do you think?

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    So let me get this straight, you like a girl who you're afraid to be seen with in public (because of her ugly face)

    You either need to get a grip, or loose the girl. I personally think you should do the first one though. And maybe eat like 5 humble pies, with a side of not-shallow.

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    And i completely agree with you. It's just so hard for some reason. I know i probably sound like a spoiled, whiny a**. Well, any advice on how to get a grip?

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    Quote Originally Posted by dono01 View Post
    So let me get this straight, you like a girl who you're afraid to be seen with in public (because of her ugly face)

    You either need to get a grip, or loose the girl. I personally think you should do the first one though. And maybe eat like 5 humble pies, with a side of not-shallow.
    wake up and smell the coffee. physical attraction is just as important as anything else. if he know right away that he is going to be out of his comfort zone, why bother?
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    It's kind of how I feel about you're face Sonrisa. I however have made the executive decision to eat some pie, and leave you. lol.

    Okay, that was a joke. I'm sorry.

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    Don't bother.

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    Quote Originally Posted by girl68 View Post
    Don't bother.
    could you elaborate on that, please?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ryan99999 View Post
    could you elaborate on that, please?
    you're shallow, so you need to find a pretty girl... don't be too surprised if she's shallow too and dumps you 'cause you're wallet isn't thick enough.

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    You'll damage this girl if you keep dating her. She deserves to find someone who wants to be with her and is proud to be seen with her. That's not you. Do her a favor and move on.
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    Ryan, Ryan, Ryan. how old are you?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gigabitch View Post
    You'll damage this girl if you keep dating her. She deserves to find someone who wants to be with her and is proud to be seen with her. That's not you. Do her a favor and move on.
    exactly, if he dates her out of pity and then dumps her, she'll be hurting than if he doesn't date her in the first place.
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    17, and it wouldn't be pity. i do like her. i don't really know how to explain it. but one thing is true, i don't want to hurt her. I never want to.

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    let her go. you do not like her ENOUGH.

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    sigh. we just really seem to connect when we talk...

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    Well, I hate to break the news to you, but you're going to hurt her one way or another. You might as well pull the bandaid off quickly and end it. Am I right?

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