ok so i have been dating a guy for the past few months, he was quite a closed book to begin with but has told me all along he is married, but seperated for 1 year and had a gf since but when the wife (who cant move on) found out she started using his kid against him. He has a 2 yr old girl with his wife and doesnt want to hurt the daughter and be possibly blackmailed by going thru a divorce. to begin with i thought it was all lies and he is married and im the 'other women' but now time is getting on he is quite open and honest and doesnt show any signs of lieing. he says that if he gets a divorce his ex wife will "brainwash" his daughter as she is young so until she is a few years older and can remember her dad and have her own opinions he doesnt want to risk loosing his little girl in a divorce. So does that sound reasonable or is he just a good lier? btw he is 33 and was wife his wife since they were 18!!