Hello all,
I have recently been told by my girlfriend of 5+ years..The girl I was weeks away from asking to marry me (she doesnt know AND I havnt had the heart or manhood to tell her that) I just cant she crushed my heart and soal by telling me she wanted to take a break!!!!!!... she wants a break. I am a Minor League baseball player and I go to Spring training in March and I am gone for the season for 6 months. This girl and I have been through college together, love each other to death, and yet I have noticed for about a month or so she was distancing herself from me. We didnt make love nearly at all, She would go out and party with her friends excessively. I am not a controlling/ needy boyfriend at all....I let her do her thing and want her to be happy and have a great time!!!
We have been through everything, we hardly ever fight, and I know she loves me. I just dont understand the break. I mean when I am away for baseball I think about her all the time. I try to talk to her as much as I can (about 1-2 phonecalls a day). I Don't think there is another guy that has gotten in the way of us. I just need some advice on this....
Is she trying to gently dump me? Is the baseball and distance too much for her? I mean this is my last year i am going to play baseball because i want to start a life and actually make some money... I love this girl very much and I am devistated right now.
If anyone has any insight or recomendations for me...I mean i will give her space...I really do give her all the space she needs all the time anyhow...I just dont understand...She hangs out with her friends all the time and I am ok with that.
Please if anyone has any advice I would greatly appreciate it. Thank you in advance