My girl has a big problem with me knowing her cell phone lock pass code. She texts other guys she has previously had sex with and still works with. Is it wrong of me to want to know what she is writing him? She says that they are friends still. I have told her many times that it really bothers me that they still talk. He has a girl friend anyway. I have met the guy and he seems like the really flirty type that would cheat at any given moment. Is it possible for them to just be friends after they have had sex and should I be cool with this? Should we know each others pass codes? I am very confused as what to think. If any women could help me out. She says thats its a privacy issue and I should trust her. I do but I simply don't trust this guy. Please help.