"u know just cause i want to be single doesnt mean i dont like you but doesnt mean id be happy if you dated other people cause id like to know that your only into me"
What a piece of work he is. He doesn't want to be your boyfriend but he wants to restrict you like he is. Well, screw him. Cut all contact with him, he doesn't have the time for you and he obviously doesn't value you enough to make time for you. He want's you there when it suits HIM. if you have any girl ballzzz you'll tell him to go eff himself and the horse he rode in on.
Either he's all in or you're all out. That's what you need to tell him and then base your actions on his response by either being all in with him or all out like him.
Don't ever settle for being loyal and committed to someone who has told you that they don't want to be your boyfriend.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion