its snowballing into a disaster - help..

[LostNotFound]

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[vashti]

Give him a book or some music, or tailor the gift to whatever hobby he has.

[xmoongirlx]

Don't be so aggravated by it. It's suppose to be FUN, if he loves you, he'll love anything that you give him.

If you can't afford anything, what about a picnic & u d the cooking?

Roasting marshmallos in the beach?

Baking him a cake for his birthday?

There are so many things u can do =)

Good luck!

[LostNotFound]

help me please..

i like to be centre of attention and am bossy and 99% of the time get my way anyway i really wanted his birthday to be special and hes NEVER EVER had a party - i wana throw him one but he doesnt want the fuss made over him. what do i do? i wana make the fuss i want him 2 feel special

[Gigabitch]

I think he would feel NOT special if you did something for his birthday that you wanted instead of what he wanted.

I think you should tell him you're his slave for the day. Rub his feet, make him a sandwich, satisfy his every whim. I think it would be fun to have a total princess girl do that for him, don't you?

[LostNotFound]

but i do that kinda thing for him any way. hes simple. he doesnt ever want anything but he'd give anything. arrrghhh i've been planning this for weeks and have got nowhere.

i was thinking we could go out during the day then in the evening just meet up with all our friends for dinner.

[Gigabitch]

That sounds suspiciously like a party. Why don't you just invite another couple and make it a double date?

[Junket]

i was thinking we could go out during the day then in the evening just meet up with all our friends for dinner.

That sounds pretty good. Keep it simple, but thoughtful. And as Giga said, don't do something you wanna do. That defeats the purpose.

[miSSleepy]

If he's simple and doesn't won't a fuss here's an idea: stop making a fuss!
There are heaps of things you can do that don't involve money or fancy parties. Take him out somewhere ... are there any good places around your city; parks, landmarks, activities etc? God, the main thing MY bf wanted was for him to buy him an hour or two at the game arcade and some time with me afterwards.

[IndiReloaded]

Nono. Guys like him like simple. Make him a nice dinner, buy him some beer & a good man-movie, rub his crotch while watching it & then shag before bed. Best birthday gift you can give a guy like that.

[vashti]

...except she is a virgin waiting for marriage. indi's plan may need a bit of revision, but I think she is on the right track.

[LostNotFound]

lol no sex no rubbing crotches an no man movies although it looks like we might end up going to watch american gangster. then going iceskating (i cant ice sakte but he can) and then to dinner with friends. so seems sorted

[Gigabitch]

Btw, I'd like to mention that you are one lucky girl, having a guy with simple needs like that. My boyfriend has complicated, expensive needs around his birthday.

Sometimes I feel like a lesbian. He's kinda high-maintenance.

Hey, I have an idea. Why don't you take him to your parents' house for dinner. Baaahahaha!

[LostNotFound]

ahahahahah rep points for giga that made ma laugh.

he's definately not high maintenence - that would be me. he spoils me so i just wanted to spoil him back.

how olds your bf giga?

[Gigabitch]

how olds your bf giga?

He just turned 37, so I think the chances of him growing out of this are slim.