Originally Posted by
xxazurexx
Well I say good for you that this guy has came into the picture for whom you have a strong interest. Our focus and when this happens, slightly shifts from our ex and onto the new person and he could be the guy to help you get over your ex.
When someone new came into my life, I think me and the previous guy had been split for 5 months and I still wasn't over him. But the new guy...well I guess that gradually and over time and spending time with him, I thought about the ex less and less and then I was completely over him.
I'm thinking it's real early days for you though, you have only split with your ex just over a week/2 weeks?? But still, if you like this new guy I'd take it slow.
I also have to add that I hate it when guys will try to 'convince' me that they are unlike 'other' guys. That they will never hurt me, blah, blah and who expect that I will trust them and immediatley. I think each and every guy that ever came into my life said the same thing....lols
Trust is earned and it isn't earned overnight and I'm suspicious of the ones who protesteth too loudly - because in my experience they have proven to the biggest douches walking. I like the chance and to be able to judge for 'myself' and over time, as to what kind of guy he is. Which is why when they say they will never hurt me, etc, it goes in one ear and out of the other.
Does this guy know you are fresh out of a relationship?