I have been with my wife since her freshman year in high school, so about 8.5 years. We got married last august, and we have loved each other every step of the way. Recently she tells me that she needs some space because I haven't been spending enough time with her and I have been ignoring her, which is semi-true. I may have a slight case of depression at times. So she heads up to her dads house 2 hours away and stays for four days.
Upon returning she tells me that while she was up there she didn't miss me one bit. She insists that we keep apart for a while until she starts to miss me, meanwhile she is going out with friends and family drinking and partying.
Now she is telling me she wants a divorce and we drifted too far apart, which I blaim partially on our work schedules, but she is right. We have been drifting and seeing less of each other.
No amount of pleading or begging will change her mind. She is camping with her family this entire weak so I havent seen her, I've just been being destroyed by her texts. She just says she only likes me as a friend now and she needs us both to date other people so she can make sure I am the right one for her, which sounds very high-schoolish.
I'm starting to think that it's really over, but I can't give up. I'm becoming more and more unstable and if it wasn't for my mom trying to help I would be in trouble.
So what do you think I should do, and is there any hope for us?