Man, all the women telling you what's going on in his head in the ask a male forum. What's the point in us asking.
Frankly, he'll ask when and if he's ready to. Stating that you're ready to get engaged this year really doesn't mean anything at all unless you're going to ask him. Maybe he's thought about it, maybe he's thought a lot about it, or maybe he's just not keen on the idea. Pondering the idea of marriage, and actually feeling ready to shackle yourself to a woman for life are two completely different things. Marriage is scary for a guy. If the marriage ends badly you'll likely take half or more of the belongings/money in the relationship. If there are kids you'll likely get custody and he'll have to pay child support. Women dream and plan about their wedding day from about the time they're 5. Guys dread and fear their wedding day from about the same time.
What was it the book on what to expect when you're getting married (for men). Ah yes. "The dictionary defines a groom as a man or boy in the employ of caring for horses. Now, brides-to-be will tell you that the proper term is bridegroom, but you get the point. As the man a wedding is something that happens to you, not for you."
It's great that you know what you want, now's the part where you have to understand that just because you are somewhere emotionally, your partner may not be. This could be for any number of reasons, from the fact that you leave dirty used q-tips lying about to he cannot afford the ring he feels you deserve as an engagement gift. The question you have to ask yourself is, how long are you willing to wait for him to ask and is that time a reasonable one or one based upon your own arbitrary desires?
Having been in this situation before, if another woman ever started making me feel pressured to ask her to marry her "or else", the "or else" would be me kicking her ass to the curb. Either nut up and ask him yourself, or wait patiently, or leave him. Those are your choices, it's your life. Choose one.
"Well, then," the Cat went on, "you see a dog growls when it's angry, and wags its tail when it's pleased. Now I growl when I'm pleased, and wag my tail when I'm angry. Therefore I'm mad."