What the heck..

[Amaranta]

I have been seen him for over 2 yrs, he still married and has two kids; but he is separate. I still haven't met his family because his ex-wife still goes to all the family reunion including holidays. He has asked me to wait until December when everything will change.
Am i just waisting my time with this guy? what type of relationship he wants?

[LaurenR22]

I think you either have 2 options.. sit and wait and see if things do change in December or walk away and wait until he truly is free of all his baggage, both come with risks though.

[bulrush]

I've never heard of a separation going on for 2 years. I think he doesn't want a commitment with you. Is he getting a divorce? Have you seen the papers yourself?