I'll try to make this as short as i can.
Theres a girl at work who started maybe a year ago, we work in different departments so never really needed to speak or even see each other. I was told that she has a "thing" for me by another girl colleague but didnt really think anything of it. She added me on Facebook one day so i accepted as you do, it says shes in a relationship so i never thought anything of it. We started to speak a bit as we bumped into each other around the company, nothing major just hi how are you, good day that sort of stuff. One weekend she messages me on Facebook and carry's on for the whole day / weekend. This continued into the week and didnt stop. We went shopping together one night after work not long after the 1st message, maybe a week or two. I saw this as just friends as i know she has a bf, but we did have a good time. She continued the messaged and started to ring me at least a few times a week, would always come over to my desk and made no mistake about telling me how unhappy she is with her bf. I didnt really know how to take it but i get on well with her so i just tried to be friendly but not to friendly, as we spent more time together we got more and more flirty. We've been out a few times on our own, she tried to kiss me at a work night not so long ago then a short while after at another one she got jealous when i was dancing with another girl and wouldnt speak to me. We had a chat about it and she admits why she with someone she cant get jealous over what i do. We went out again for some food and drinks and she kept saying how it feels like a date. Since then shes been very off with me, she says that she wants to sort what she wants with her bf but then she'll start flirting again. I really get the feeling that there is something there between us but we both wont admit it, tbh i dont even know how i feel totally. I know she does the whole messaging thing with other blokes from work, i dunno if shes just a messer / game player or if she does actually like me. Im very confused about the whole thing, i dunno if she wants me to tell her i like her so she can leave her bf? We're starting to argue over little things now and im feeling very tense and it probably seems like ive got the right hump with her. We said we'll have a talk about it sometime in the week, so should i just be completely honest and ask her straight what she wants? or should i just forget the whole thing?
Thoughts on what i should do and what you think she wants please?
Thanks.