Originally Posted by
Sammyhart
There's this guy that I met like two months ago and I'll spare you extra details and just say that we started a fwb kind of deal. So, everything was fine the only things that we bothering me was the face that he only wanted to message me on snapchat and that when we were alone he would talk to me about any anything but in person he would either ignore me or when I said hello to him he would act ****ing weird about it. Also he would only message me at like 1am in the morning talking about "let's hangout".
Already, these things we bothering me but I just dealt with it because well, I was having fun and the sex was good.Flash forward to about a week ago and we're in the same room (we live in the same dorm) and as expected he ignores me again. This time however he messages me and says "come upstairs so we can cuddle." To me that pushed me over the edge because to say CUDDLE in my mind has a much more serious connotation. So I replied by telling him that while he thinks that he's funny he doesn't amuse me. He didn't answer until the next day with an eloquent "?" I told him that I didn't want to be his friend strictly at 2am and that I refused to have this conversation on snapchat. I thought he would ignore me but he ended up responding with and equally eloquent "okay" and I opened the message but never responded.
So now I see him around the dorm and I completely ignore him. I catch him staring at me often though and just to give an example, the other day we were in the elevator with a bunch of people and he was asking each person what floor they were going to but just pressed my floor so I know he acknowledges me.
Yesterday I almost broke and was about to ask him what his deal was so we could talk it out but I decided that I didn't want to break first. So do you guys think I'm just creating this in my head or am I right in my assumptions? What do you think I should do?