As my username states, i am totally confused! i met this girl about two months ago. since we met we have been having sex- and it is great sex! She also has a fantastic personality and we get on really well. While we are not officially gf and bf she told me last night that she has fallen for me.
I've always stated that i don't want a gf and that it was always just about having fun. I decided to do the "decent thing" and not mess her about. I told her that it was probably best that we don't contact each other anymore as i can't give her what she wants. I genuinely don't want to hurt her.
Trouble is, even as i was telling her, the thought of not seeing her again actually made me feel sick and empty. I hardly slept last night and still feel sh*t this morning.
I just need some advice on what i should do. Do i miss always having someone there to text, hang out with or sleep with or do i have genuine feelings for her? Help!!