This forums is pretty awesome so I wanted to come back for more advice.
I really like this guy. We've been going to school (college) together for awhile. He's 28. I went to a dance with him outside of school, and he kissed me right on the dance floor. Every one of our friends saw it, and he's the one who started it. (I know this b/c I remember him coming in to kiss me and thinking 'oh man, this is it' lol)
Anyway, I've had a crush on him for awhile, and I told him this after he kissed me because I got nervous, and then a couple days after that night. He had no clue.
Anyways, I feel like I start every conversation with him. He doesn't initiate anything. Even though, he's told me he wants to take me on date.
I dont understand this. Why doesn't he initiate anything? He said he was surprised I ended up liking him, and that guys he knows are lining at the door to date me. OBVIOUSLY, this is a very bloated compliment from him.
Why would he say something like that, initiate contact with me at the party, then not initiate anything after that? I reaaallly want to hang out and have fun with him, but it feels so weird to initiate everything. I dont talk to him alot or stalk him or anything. I give him his space, its just weird how he doesnt try anything without me initiating it. It throws me off.
Is he just being shy? I want to sleep with him and be around him in general. But, I don't want to have to tell him this exactly before he makes a move. I WANT him to make a move, so I know its mutual. Anything. What is he thinking??