Hi,
I've been going out with my girlfriend for over 3 years now and I love her very much. I am 22 and she's 23 and both go to univeristy. We lived together for a year from October 2009 to October 2010. I decided to move out becuase I thought that I wanted to experience a little indepenence, which didn't go down well. She understood though and decided to stay with me. It has been a year now since I moved and I don't know whether to move back in again. I would like to live with her but I sometimes want to be able to be on my own, sleep on my own etc. I am very confused and don't know what to do. She seems to think that I decided to move out knowing that I wouldn't move back in with her again but that is not true. I just don't know when I will feel like I will want to live with her again. Am I being selfish, should I just let her go? She came over the other night to 'sort things out,' she said we should just be friends but I started crying and got very upset. Why did I cry if I didn't want to be with her? I am so confused, please help!
Stooper