I met a wonderful guy yesterday, but I fear that he will disappear from my life one day. Should I talk yo him about my fear or not?
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06-07-10, 05:45 PM #1
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tell him about my fears or not?
just want some love...
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06-07-10, 08:35 PM #2
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please someone answeer
just want some love...
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06-07-10, 09:12 PM #3
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If you want him to disappear for good and sooner than he may, yeah go ahead, tell him that you are afraid to lose him.
Or you could stop worrying about things that are totally beyond your control, try just relaxing, get to know this guy and allow things to take their natural course.
I just met a new guy recently, who might leave me one day. Every woman on earth may have a guy who will leave them one day, but seriously, why worry about it? You enjoy it while it lasts!! lol...
Quit being so full of doom and gloom and thinking 'negative' thoughts all the time, else you will lose people in your life....and not only boyfriends!
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06-07-10, 10:20 PM #4
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You really shouldn't think of these things this early in a relationship, you only met him yesterday. If you are to say this to him so early on, chances are he will leave, this just puts him under a lot of pressure. Just go with the flow right now, the start of relationships are for getting to know eachother and build attraction to each other.
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07-07-10, 12:22 AM #5
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first date? whoa... do you have attatchment issues? If this is first date man... HELLL NO don't tell- he'll run as fast as he can away...
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07-07-10, 12:46 AM #6
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No, you shouldn't say this out loud. Do you want him to run away scared?
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07-07-10, 01:14 AM #7
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I completely agree with xxazurexx, let things take their natural course and find out what happens. At such an early point, you really don't know enough about each other to make any solid decision or judgment.
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07-07-10, 02:10 AM #8
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Yea I would start running as soon as I would hear that Aksy
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