I wasn't sure either I put this topic into dating or dumping talk. Probably you have alrady discussed this problem and I'm very sorry if I missed it. Well, here's the thing:
1. How do you reject someone who really likes you and wants to be with you. But you already gave him "cantwejustbefriends" fraze for about three times!!! And he still doesn't get it. I don't want to be rude, but I'm afraid that's the only way
2. And now, the total opposite: I really like someone, lets call him J And there is a chance that he likes me too. And I REALLY don't want to make a first step, because I'm afraid... that I will get dumped. Which is possible, cause he is quite older than me (18, 24) and besides, he is quite a busy man, so maybe he doesnt search for a girl right now.
What should I do? Just forget about the whole thing? Can I somehow make him make tke first step (that's impossible, right?)
Please, share your wisdom