Hey, so for a couple days now I've noticed my girlfriend has been very different with me, for instance yesterday I asked her if she would like a sausage roll for work and she said "no I don't want a ****ing sausage roll" something so small and me being kind and she was rude to me. Anyway, today she got home and was very distant when she went out I went through her phone (I know it's rude and pathetic but I wanted to check) and I was right. She had been messaging her ex telling him I'm childish (what is very funny because my girlfriend talks and acts very childish herself lol) and I'm too lazy. she put "don't get me wrong I care about him but he's too lazy and childish" he said don't let him put you down you are better and too good for him and she agreed and thanked him. I'm really angry and hurt at the moment. I'm not sure what to do, any advice anyone? I have no idea how I'm childish to be honest, for instance when my girlfriend is ill and not feeling well or wants to sleep I do my best to help her but when I'm for instance feeling tired she will keep hitting/tiggling me so I can't sleep. I'm so hurt to be honest as for lazy, yes. I would agree I am but I'm trying as I've never lived alone before (we share a flat) she then messaged him saying she wants her best mate back and she misses him.
Advice please? I feel like crying...