So... what is the next step after hooking up with someone? I met a guy a while back and we hung out as a group. We had tons of fun so a week later I started asking around about him and what not. I actually added him on Insta and we started chatting. I messaged him to ask if he had found my credit card because I thought it fell out in his truck and he ended up giving me his number and we chatted. I ended up giving him my number and told him to contact me. He texted me one day and said he hoped I had a good day. That conversation carried on into the evening and he asked me what I was going to do. I told him I had plans to meet up with some friends for dinner and asked what he was up to. He said he thought about getting out and since I was, then he deff would. (Thought that was sweet.)
Us girls ended up at a bar and so I texted him to tell him and he invited us to meet up with him at a different club. We all hung out all night and had the best time ever. He started getting touchy/feely and I didn't stop it. We were a few drinks in and not causing any harm! Well... he offered to take me home because we are somewhat neighbors so I went with him. I didn't have any intention in my mind to go home with him like that but I did.... He offered to take me to my house a million times but we ended up at his place. I felt like we had chemistry and we had fun. We talked and laughed all night long and had a good time. It wasn't like a "hit it and quit it" type thing to me? I haven't had many sexual partners but it deff wasn't like one I've experienced before. After my long term boyfriend years ago I met a guy who became more of a friends with benefits and that was wayyy different. We would have fun and go our separate ways right after. But this time with this guy.. it didn't feel that way. He told me he wanted me to stay the night. We cuddled and laughed the night away. He mentioned taking me to dinner some time. We are both older and the bar scene isn't really for us. We talked about family and our pasts. I am 30 and he is early 30's. I am not the type of girl to just go home with a guy even though it seems like it. That's just not me. I am not confident enough and I am really shy plus that just isn't something I want. I just hope I didn't jump the gun. No I don't want to marry this guy.. I am a girl who prefers to be single VS being with someone just to have someone. I am the type of girl if it happens, it happens! I am not looking for anything. But like I said at the beginning... I felt like I could be interested in this guy thats why I started asking about him... have I blown it now? What is the next step? I really don't feel that it is my move to text him? When he dropped me off in the morning I told him to have a good day and he smiled. We laughed about how terrible work was going to be because we both had to be there within the hour. I told him to holler at me later and he said absolutely and smiled.
Any advice?