Ok this is my first post to this forum as i usually dont do this kind of thing but am left with few options. My name is Mark i am 21 years old and my girlfriend (lets call her girl X) is a very ungreatful girlfriend and i need help on what i need to do. so my girlfriend and i have been dating for little over a year now and ever since we started she has known i was joining to military. well i ship out next weekend. The whole time we have dated she has been full support of me and my decisions until these last few months she has been so on edge about everything. i know all girls over think things like this like oh well you will find someone else, or oh you will come back and not love me anymore and this that and the other. well this part has been screwing with me alot. i dont want to leave her but im young and im going to do what i want in life and reach my goals reguardless. so on to another point. she is a CPA at an accounting firm making a very good living with her only bill being a car payment. the car payment should be cheaper but she just has to have that exact car. now yes she can afford it and still has plenty of money as she has no other bills. yet im currently living in a house that i saved up for and is already paid off, i busted my ass to get this house and remodel it and everything by my self with no family help. so i pay the utilities bill, my cable bill, my phone and every other bill a grownup pays. i make half the money she does and work my ass off for it. from the beggining she has always been just so un appreciative of things i do for her. she expects me to pay for every single thing we do. she is too good to eat at the house and im a fairly good cook. but if she wants a certain thing for dinner and i say no im eating home tonight she pitches a fit and pouts like a child. if she wants to have drinks at the house and i was fine not drinking im expected to pay for it. every single time. and god forbid i ask her to pick me up a 3$ can of copenhagen i just ask too much of her and she likes to throw her car payment in my face like she cant spend money on anything but that when she makes plenty of money to pay it. Well i dont mind spending money on her or suprising her with dates or things she wants ( when i can afford it) and never spend money on my self. she is constantly wondering why im broke and fails to accept the fact its all going to her and to bills. I never get a thankyou for anything i do, its like im just expected to be the only one spending money. so the other day i went out and spent some money on myself and bought this new rifle i have wanted for years and finally decided to go get it. so i spent a little over 1000$ and she gets furious because i spend my money on "stupid shit" do i really need someone telling me how to spend my money at this age? she wanted this opal ring for christmas. i went out and bought her the exact ring she wanted. 400$ on this ring, she opens it and had a disgusted look on her face and says it wasnt like i thought it was. do yall wanna know what i got for christmas from her? i got a 25$ gift card to academy sports and i was so greatful for that, kind of a let down i spent all that money and she spent hardly anything. sorry guys im all over the place with this thread but i need help big time. what do i do!!!???