My boyfriend and I have been together for Two and a half years now. At first everything was perfect we clicked immediately. We spend all our time together. And we talked about the future A Lot. He wanted to get married soon after I turned 18. We had disagreements but always talked about them until they were resolved. 1 year in and we started looking at promise rings and everything was going well. It's hard for me to pinpoint where things stopped going so smoothly but I think it was around the end of year two. He started to get depressed and distanced himself from me. I asked him why he wasn't happy anymore and he told me he felt overwhelmed because I wasn't doing enough around the house (cleaning and cooking etc.). So I started doing more and after a month I asked him again why he wasn't happy. He said that it still wasn't enough and that If I didn't do more he would break up with me because he couldn't continue to feel that way. So I started doing A LOT more around the house. It got to the point where if I stopped cleaning I would have a panic attack thinking it wasn't enough and he was going to leave me. I asked him about the future and if he still wanted to marry me and he said he wasn't sure. He started spending time at a female friends house so that he had sometime to himself to just hang out with friends. Whenever anything bad happens between us or he is having a bad day he talks to her about it instead of me.*** So then I have no idea what is wrong. I'm not allowed to read the messages because he says their are some things he doesn't want to tell me and he just has to get off his chest. So I have no idea what they are talking about. But Im his girlfriend?? Whenever he wants to see my phone or read my messages he just does. If he sees me typing he asks who I'm talking to and what we are talking about. But if I ask him the same question he looks at me like I'm crazy and answers in a questioning tone like it's none of my buisness. He texts her more than he talks to me. He doesn't kiss me unless I initiate it. He never says "I love you" anymore. He used to touch my butt and flirt with me but not anymore. He used to cuddle me and tell me he loved me in his sleep but that has stopped too. We stopped having sex for 3 or so months due to a medical thing but he is recovered now and we still don't do it, and as far as I know he doesn't have a desire to do it. I call him handsome and sexy all the time but he never says it back to me. It's at a point where I'm in a constant state of anxiety whenever he isn't happy. It feels like a breakup is just around the corner. He says he still loves me and wants to make it work and I love him so so much I just don't know what to do. I don't want to end this relationship. (No I don't think he is cheating) Help Please.