So there's this hot girl

[Matt15Vick]

Ok new member here... and I have a question.
There's this girl I see around school pretty frequently and she is extremely hot and fairly popular. I want to go talk to her but every time I see her my stomach does something similar to a backflip. I know I should just talk to her and get it over with but I freeze up. I guess I think cause she is more popular than me I can't get her. Is this true or should I just go for it and say screw it? ALso what should I say to get the conversation started? Most of the girls I know I've already met. I haven't really gone up to a girl and tried to meet them ever. I'd appreciate some help. Thanks

[Debunkt]

You're in highschool... so Ima go ahead and say no, she'll reject your ass.


I dunno. If she's one of them girls that is so overly aware and in love with her popularity that she may not date less popular guys, would you really want to date her anyway?

[CircleC]

Do you know what you are going to do after you graduate from highschool? I'd be interested to know.

[Matt15Vick]

What do you mean after school? like jobwise or girlwise?

[whaywardj]

So, the criteria for wanting to talk to her are that she's "extremely hot and fairly popular"?

[CircleC]

So, the criteria for wanting to talk to her are that she's "extremely hot and fairly popular"?

Hmm, seems more like criteria to gawk at her and fantasize about being friendly with her. He's already got that covered. What was the question?

[bball_1523]

if you really feel like meeting her, then find an appropriate time and just say hi and introduce yourself, then go from there. Ask stuff related to school and talk to her like a friend.

[Junsui]

What bball said. Talk to her about school. I would be willing to bet that things won't go the way you want if you aren't popular like she is. Ahhhh High school. I certainly don't miss that place.

[bball_1523]

What bball said. Talk to her about school. I would be willing to bet that things won't go the way you want if you aren't popular like she is. Ahhhh High school. I certainly don't miss that place.

yeah man, I had a hard time talking to women in high school, all of them pretty much rejected me. But you never know matt, there's always a chance.

[Junsui]

I was reading Dear Abby and found this. Maybe it will help you out.

DEAR ABBY: I am 12 and in the sixth grade. My problem is that I'm having trouble talking with girls. Every time I meet an attractive girl, I either can't speak to her, or I talk to her and sometimes she doesn't like me.

What I'm asking for are some tips on how to be a good talker and get the girl of my dreams. I'd also like to know from your girl readers what they like in a guy. -- J.C. IN ERIE, PA.

DEAR J.C.: Becoming a good talker is an acquired skill for most people. But one technique that works is to ask someone about her opinion, "What do you think about ...?" It can be something that happened in class, at school, an athletic event or something in the news. Of course, there are no guarantees that everyone you talk to will like you, but most people feel complimented when you ask their opinion.

[Asip4u]

Yes, also as an example. Junsui, how is your day going so far you sexy thang? You probably might want to stay from the "sexy thang" part for awhile.

[Junsui]

It is going pretty well. I've had Tone to entertain me. How has your day been?

[Asip4u]

It is going pretty well. I've had Tone to entertain me. How has your day been?

That's good, Tone is a good entertainer. My day, so far, so good.

[Davy19]

Well high school is mostly just puppy love and gossip.

If she is any way on such a high horse with her popularity and actually pertains that to a person's traits and 'deserving' she is about as deep as a kitchen sink.
There plenty of girls like this and just because of how attractive she is doesn't mean it will merit a good relationship. That only attracts people.

The only reason people do that in high school is almost bragging rights, snagging the hot chick.

Wanting to start a relationship out of the blue is a bad way to go, you get to know a person first.