Questions and a little problem.

[kylie lyn]

Hey

First, I'm a junior in high school and I've never had a boyfriend before but I have alot of guy friends (which I don't intend on dating)

There is this one guy that has me attracted and "obsessed" because I think about him most of the time. He is a new guy that came to the states about 5 months ago and he doesn't have that many friends yet. But he is so attractive, he's tall, slim, athletic (he's in my gym class and he and I play sports together with two other girls) has the most beautiful eyes, is very handsome and most of all, he has the most melting accent (Russian).

We both have a lunch period together and I now go and sit with him because he's alone. He has friends but I seem to be the only one free in that period. I walk him to English class after and I hug him before he enters the classroom (I know it's suppose to be the opposite way, but I feel really comfortable about this and he's new and I've been here since ninth grade)

He hugs me really tight and smiles everytime I see him. We walk together on the track for gym but I'm afraid to say anything because he's not too fluent on english but he understands and knows how to respond. He will do that "tickling move" where he sneeks up behind you and start squeezing the sides of your stomach. He actually did that to me today, twice, after walking him to class.

Are these signs that he is somewhat attracted to me?

Now, the problem. The two girls that we play in gym together also likes him. And one of them is a very close friend of mine and I love her to death. I don't want to hurt her feelings and I don't want mine getting hurt either. But the thing is, she can have any guy she wants. She's so friendly and fun to hang out with. I'm not so fortunate. I really think that this guy I like would really result in something but I'm afraid she might get in the way.

Thanks for reading,
Kylie-Lyn

P.S. for you guys out there. Do you find locking-arms to be a little bit uncomfortable, especially if you don't know that person too well but know them in general?

[shh!]

He probably likes you, sweetie. You and every other girl in school. That is the nature of high school boys. Wait for him to make a move if you are worried about whether or not he likes you.

About your girlfriend - what would she do if she were in your position?

[kylie lyn]

That's true, but the fact is he doesn't have many girl friends but he knows his buddies. He told me that I was the first girl that hugged him since he came to America which I found to be very flattering.

I think she would go for him, sad to say. And that's whats bothering me. The thing is that she is already in my position and I don't think she will stop just so I can have a chance. But that's just in my humble opinion, I may be totally wrong, but it's what I'm assuming.
She told me personally that she wanted to date him. The other girl just has a crush but isn't looking for something to happen. I, on the other hand, have very high hopes and I really souldn't.

[shh!]

That you were the first girl that hugged him is merely a fact: not something to be flattered about, in my opinion.

I don't know how close of friends you are with these girls, but all I can say is that it is a very bad idea to fight over boys. There will be plenty of them coming around in the next ten years or so. Your friend should not be hurt if a boy likes you better. If she is, she isn't a very good friend, now is she?

[Lloyd95]

Wow. Your name sounds like a hot stripper or porn star. You're not by any chance are you? A stripper or porn star?

[Rosebud]

Wow. Your name sounds like a hot stripper or porn star. You're not by any chance are you? A stripper or porn star?

What happened to your good advice???

[Lloyd95]

What happened to your good advice???

Nah, I'll leave Ellynn for that. I'm just here to bust on people, and flirt with the ladies.