best friend flirting with my current lover

[bunnyhabit]

i know my best friend is in one side love marriage. she only married my current boyfriends best friend because he pushed her into marriage by buying her many gifts, beating up any other guy that hot talked to her and being very possessive of her 24/7. lately she has been sitting close to my man and very flirtatious. she knows her husband is scared of my man because he is bigger and stronger than him.

i have asked her not to get so forward with my lover and she said she just being friendly because he is only man her husband will allow her to get close and personal with. she told me not to worry as she would never cheat with my man based on our ten year relationship. note i have known both my current lover (rebound relationship from teenage years) and her for over ten years.

i have tried to be with her when my lover is not around and she always asks personal questions about him and flirts with every guy she mets even though married. I have confided this with my lover and he told me not to worry as he knew she was always a flirt and only he wanted to be intimate with me.

I still worry about her having an secret affair with my always horny boyfriend. he is seldom flaccid if you know what i mean he he.

What are your thoughts? am i being paranoid and should have faith in my lovers fidelity? should i go no contact with my best friend of ten years to reduce potential for them hooking up? i really like her but don't want to risk sharing my guy with her.

[Snow White]

It comes down to a very simple question....do you trust your boyfriend? You have told your best friend you are not comfortable with the way she flirts with your boyfriend. She needs to respect that, no excuses. If you go out of your way to keep them apart, you will just look jealous and insecure.