I need advice

[Photojunkie90]

Hey guys,
I'm in a sticky situation I'll summarize as best as I can. Basically a former co worker and I began going on dates and stuff for a little over two months. Shes married, and still on the fence about getting a divorce. She dislikes her husband and has been trying to leave him for years but is using her daughter as leverage to keep her coming back. Shes currently living with her parents right now. We never kissed for the longest time until three weeks ago. I told her I think it's a bad idea and she made the comment "this is why we wouldn't be good for eachother". Then it happened. From then onward we actually just seemed like a couple, we kept going on dates and everything. Then yesterday I dont know but she did a complete 180 saying it's unfair to me that right now all she can do is keep me dangling on strings and shes unsure if shes getting the divorce still she doesnt know what to do. She said she still wants to see me because she hates not being around me. But she just wants to keep the emotional stuff down as much as possible because she doesnt want me to be the rebound. She wants me to be the next guy. But it's just so difficult to just suck up my feelings and pretend like nothing happened. But I'm afraid if I like stop talking to her shes just going to end up repeating what she has been doing for 7 years. Shes tried to work her married out but he lies to her, cheated on her and she keeps going back.

[Hooo!]

And yes that’s bullshit

Love and relationships have shit timing
That much has always been obvious

If she ain’t feeling anything then it’s ok
But pretending something is not what it is doesn’t help either of you.

If she wants to be with you then she should
If she doesn’t want that then you should be clear about it

But pretending to not be interested because of a vague and difficult future? That’s bullshit.

I would just tell her that i would not accept this condition
Either go
Or no

[lovebroken]

How can you be her rebound when she is still with her husband and never left. Don't let her play you, she is playing you, having her husband and you all in one not willing to risk or leave either, unfair to all involved.Don't cheat with a cheat, wait til she lives her husband then hook up.

[pcmaster]

Yeah man this is BS. Close to divorse, dislikes her husband. All that have seen milions of times on this forums. Formula is always the same. She wanted to hook up with you, thats why she said that. They always are victims to bad husbands. But real victim here is you cause she can run back to her hubby any time and if she wanted to leave him she would long time ago.

Your mistake was to start anything with her. Now stop repating this mistake and dont let this BS continue. Only way you should see her again if she get a real official divorce. Otherwise you are playing game where only loser is you.