Im So Confused .. Help :(

[GurlieInLove]

Well 2 weeks ago i was going out with this guy and i dumped him as i thought it wasnt going so well but i hoped we could go out again in a later time so he told me he still liked me which was good. This week he told me that he didnt like me as much and he liked someone else .. And i also am dating another guy now who wanted to go out with me but the thing is that the first boy has told me that he wants to go out with that girl and its going to happen soon which i didnt think would bother me but it actually does even if it is mean on my new b.f i still like my old :
HELP !!

[Asip4u]

I'm confused too...More to come...

[Junsui]

Well, you broke up with him. There isn't much you can really do. He's free to date who he wants.

[Asip4u]

Ok...Now that i think i got this...You have to make sure you are clear on which guy you really want. You can't have them both. Maybe you're just a little jealous that the other guy is going with this new girl? It happens, however, you need to see which one you're more attracted to and go after that one.

[Lloyd95]

Move on; looks like you kind of did, and he sure did.

[Rosebud]

Wow, I'm with you Asip..I had to read it twice. You broke up with this guy and now it bother's you that he's dating someone else, even though you are as well. Hmm, well I think here you have to realize you were the one that broke up with him for whatever reason, and I think your dating this other guy for a rebound, and if you still like the other guy you should not be dating someone new at all. I think I just confused mysefl...LOL

Anywho, seriously though don't date this other guy until you know you and the first guy are over completely. You don't want to hurt someone else.

[Lloyd95]

I think I just confused mysefl...LOL

I'm sure that was difficult, being blonde and all.

[Rosebud]

Lloyd come here........... *now where's that broom?*

[Junsui]

Lloyd! That wasn't very nice.

[Tone]

How old are you? 14-17 range?

[GurlieInLove]

Yes But i cant go after the other guy if hes going out with someone else because i dont think he will go out with me now !!

xx

[Junsui]

Then I guess you have no choice, but to move on!

[Rosebud]

Yep, then you just have to move on Like Junsui said. But I wouldn't continue to date this other guy if you still have feelings for someone else. That's just asking for trouble.

[Asip4u]

Move on seems very common advice these days. lol...I see it in almost every thread.

[Rosebud]

I agree, I don't think anyone wants to hear that but it's just how it is.