Help with love...

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My story:

I am a person hwo recently got in love for the first time. a week ago. I cannot stop thinink about the person that i am in love with. I do not know this person very well(hardly) I even found person bs e mail on web. earlyer this week i found person bs homepage. And on that homepage there was a diary. In the diary person b says that he/she is in love with someone(they are not togeather)... it does not look like that person is me....

my question is: what would be best to do in this situation?

[Prodigal]

Try to get to know the person better? I would think that would be the only way you could do anything... just give it time.

[mini696]

Whats this persons website?

[RescueDiver]

If you hardly know the person I doubt that you are in love. What you are feeling is infatuation. Love is something that grows as you get to know the person. I'm not saying that infatuation can't be a powerful emotion (and at first it's so strong it feels like love). Anyway, if the person you have these feelings for is in love with someone else you're just setting yourself up to get hurt. Trust me on that one, I've had plenty of experience with it.

[jaye]

My story:

I am a person hwo recently got in love for the first time. a week ago. I cannot stop thinink about the person that i am in love with. I do not know this person very well(hardly) I even found person bs e mail on web. earlyer this week i found person bs homepage. And on that homepage there was a diary. In the diary person b says that he/she is in love with someone(they are not togeather)... it does not look like that person is me....

my question is: what would be best to do in this situation?

daydreaming is good sometimes but has nothing to do with reality.
in reality my friend you need to prove yourself that what that person is dreaming for maybe good but you are better.
try and get to know her better. but a little piece of advice.
let him/her do most of the talking. there is a reason why God gave you 2 ears and one mouth.
Good luck

[jaye]

If you hardly know the person I doubt that you are in love. What you are feeling is infatuation. Love is something that grows as you get to know the person. I'm not saying that infatuation can't be a powerful emotion (and at first it's so strong it feels like love). Anyway, if the person you have these feelings for is in love with someone else you're just setting yourself up to get hurt. Trust me on that one, I've had plenty of experience with it.

so you don't believe in love at first sight?

[RescueDiver]

so you don't believe in love at first sight?

No I personally don't. But you can feel a connection (or really hit it off) with someone during that first meeting and that can grow into love. And I think that's probably what people people mean when they talk about love at first sight.

[Only-virgins]

If you hardly know the person I doubt that you are in love. What you are feeling is infatuation. Love is something that grows as you get to know the person.

Thank god that you know what she is feeling..Why am I thanking god?..its obvious that you are god...since you can read people's minds and tell them what they are feeling. In fact...you must be god since you know the definition of love...or could you just be another retarded individual?...hmmm..

No I personally don't. But you can feel a connection (or really hit it off) with someone during that first meeting and that can grow into love. And I think that's probably what people people mean when they talk about love at first sight.

Good boy

[shh!]

I agree with rescuedriver. Love at first sight = infatuation, or maybe chemistry. (But it sure feels like love!)

[MVPlaya]

My story:

I am a person hwo recently got in love for the first time. a week ago. I cannot stop thinink about the person that i am in love with. I do not know this person very well(hardly) I even found person bs e mail on web. earlyer this week i found person bs homepage. And on that homepage there was a diary. In the diary person b says that he/she is in love with someone(they are not togeather)... it does not look like that person is me....

my question is: what would be best to do in this situation?

Don't fall in love so easily? From what I've read you've had absolutely no reason to fall in love with this girl yet you desperately did anyway:

Couple thinks to keep in mind:
1. NEVER fall in love with someone who doesn't love you back.
2. ALWAYS ask yourself if there is a real reason you're attracted to someone, is that person really that intelligent, attractive, and fun to be around, or are you just projecting a boatload of emotions onto him/her for no reason.
3. Be in charge of your emotions, don't let your emotions be in charge of you.

[Only-virgins]

I agree with rescuedriver. Love at first sight = infatuation, or maybe chemistry. (But it sure feels like love!)

If it feels like it then it is. I don't question it no more then I would question when I am in pain.

[shh!]

Good for you OV. Infatuation is more visceral than love.

[Junket]

My story:

I am a person hwo recently got in love for the first time. a week ago. I cannot stop thinink about the person that i am in love with. I do not know this person very well(hardly) I even found person bs e mail on web. earlyer this week i found person bs homepage. And on that homepage there was a diary. In the diary person b says that he/she is in love with someone(they are not togeather)... it does not look like that person is me....

my question is: what would be best to do in this situation?

You kinda sound like a whackjob if you ask me.

Somethin' about you freaks me out.

[bball_1523]

are you sure you aren't obsessed or infatuated with this girl? Because if it was love at first site, and imo, I think you two would already know each other well and truly love each other.

To those saying love at first site is mere infatuation, how do you know? I don't think anyone can fully explain how love works. I just think it's a mystery and whatever you define it as is what you experience with it.

[RescueDiver]

Thank god that you know what she is feeling..Why am I thanking god?..its obvious that you are god...since you can read people's minds and tell them what they are feeling. In fact...you must be god since you know the definition of love...or could you just be another retarded individual?...hmmm..

Good boy

What are you 16 years old? Maybe when you get a little more life experience you'll figure out what love is. Love is not some knee-jerk reaction to some hot chick or guy you bump into once. It's people like you that throw the word "love" around and then wonder why a year or two down the road you all of the sudden don't love the person anymore. WHY? Because it was infatuation... not love and it wore off. Why do I know? Because I've been there.