Are we together???

[msunderstood20]

I know this question gets asked a lot, and I'm sorry. I met this guy Friday night when I was hanging out with my friend. He is really cute and I like him a lot. Anyways, they hung out with us till 5 am on Saturday night! He sat next to me on the couch and pretended to stretch and put his arm around me and then we ended up kissing. When we were kissing he told me that he liked me. So then we ended up seeing eachother every day since we met. We hang out (his best friend, my best friend, him, and me) and we all have so much fun together. Hes always kissing me, holding my hand, and asking me how my day was and stuff. Hes always concerned about me, carrys stuff for me, holds open the door. Hes perfect. He does everything a b/f would normally do. Tonight they are even coming over and cooking us dinner! But last night we were all hanging out and they were talking about this friend they have that just has a girl who he "fools around with" and they aren't together. So they were laughing about that and saying its ok. So now I don't know. Are we just friends with benefits? or can I consider him my b/f? I really want him to be my b/f, not just someone he can kiss when he needs a girl. What do you guys think??

[DuckyWucky]

Talk to him and ask him. We could say yeah you two are a couple, but then as far as he may know you're not. Just ask him where you two stand. If you just described this to me I would have to say yeah you sound like you're BF and GF.

He sat next to me on the couch and pretended to stretch and put his arm around me and then we ended up kissing.

HAHA! That's classic.

[BuzzLiteBeer]

ask of course...but that's not always easy

[leight69]

Seek clarity! Tell him how you feel, eg:

I'm feeling confused about the state of our relationship because I thought we were together, but I've become confused by hearing stuff about you fooling around with someone.

I need for you to clear up this confusion.


Ok, its not gonna come out quite like that...but you get the idea.

[LINEBACKER _2]

The only way you're going to know is if you talk to him about it.

I'm going to tell you one thing, girl. Never assume you know anything about a guy before you ask him. Then you ask him again.

That's important.

LINEBACKER 2

[msunderstood20]

Thank you for all of your replies. He brought the subject up to me this weekend and he asked me if I wanted to be in a relationship with him. So we are together now!!!!

[DuckyWucky]

w00t w00t!